oh!

beberapa waktu yg lalu, gua mikir....
seorang anak itu HARUS diajarin/dipupuk/dicontohin gimana sayang/peduli sama orang.
soalnya kalo ga, dia ga ngerti. 
ga usah jauh2, 
yes, dia sayang sama parentsnya. but di luar itu...? kayanya none. 
used to feel dia sayang sama gua, buat when she gets older...not anymore. 
and what about ke sepupunya? i dont see her loving him. she doesnt even care that he exist. gua ngerti kalo dia cemburu. wajar lah, she used to be the only one. semua perhatian ke dia, but since ada sepupunya perhatian ke sepupunya. ngertiiiii banget kalo dia cemburu. but then again, her parents harusnya ngasih dia pengertian. but i dont see them doing anything. 
yes, i blame her parents for not teaching her how to be a compassionate individual. 

gua percaya, children by nature itu a compassionate individual, tapi...peran orang tua sangat penting. apakah mereka akan memupuk/ngajarin seroang bocah untuk jadi orang yg penuh kasih sayang atau ga? apakah showing kasih sayang itu important atau ga?

i am well aware that i didn't grow up in a compassionate household, far from it!
but i know from the beginning i want my child to be a compassionate individual. i want to build a 'love-is-in-the-air' household. heck, aint easy i know! but worth fighting for.

i know im not a parent (yet), but i think its important knowing what's your purpose is. what you want in a family. how you want to build your family. 

anyway, enough of my thoughts...hihihi....